I think it really depends. There are really great blueberry bombs out there for coffee for example. A popular one is Halo Bariti natural from Ethopia, really tastes like blueberry jam in your coffee. I have a friend who is a roaster and gave me some samples he was working on, and I had one roast where it was described as sage and caramel and it was bang on. And another one labeled almond butter and it tasted like nuts. And I don't have an extremely developed pallet imo. I think anyone could taste this stuff. If you have a good kenyan or even better a natural ethiopian, I can't imagine not tasting strongish notes of fruit.
However. There were many times I have gotten coffee with descriptions that I have never gotten in my tasting, stuff like pineapple, nectarine, peaches, plum, kiwi...etc.
And then we get to wine. For wine, I can tell if it is sour, sweet, bitter, or smooth and that's about it. Same with stuff like whiskeys and bourbons, don't have a developed taste for it. I can taste smokiness, vanilla, caramel notes and that's about it.
Maybe people are better at detecting notes in some media compared to others